Cheers Norskie,
I was just about to join the chorus singing the praises of K&N airfilters, since I also have used one for the last 21 years on two Honda Blackbirds (CBR1100XX) - 54k KMs on the first bird, then 130k KMs on the second (same filter removed and installed because I'm a tightarse).
Absolutely no dust ever got past, but I fitted them and greased the seals every filter service.
At 21 yrs old the K&N filter body was beginning to swell though, but the Honda airbox design was excellent and the lid always pressed the filter firmly and correctly into place.
So your issue is the 💩 crap Ducati airbox design or deformation of the fitting ring due heat/damage at removal for servicing.
My current bike, a V4S Multi, also has a 💩crap airbox lid design - more like a thought bubble after a pizza & red wine lunch than an engineered solution. It has a steel ring base on a rubber cap and it absolutely cannot be removed for cleaning without dropping the whole front end out of the V4MS - so some genius thought up the crushable rubber cap and cable ties are used around the fork leg to to crush the lid open enough to slip a filter in/out......it works but it is rough!
No ram air ducts, no sir, just a hole facing the back of the radar in the beak, to suck as much dust in as possible. And this is Ducati's idea of a dirt road adventure bike 😱. Lucky I use it only for bitumen road sport touring 😁.
I am running the paper OEM filter but am considering a K&N next time, though one factor I have to juggle is my decat with stock ecu....don't want to much change in airflow 😉.
I doubt there is a universal case against K&N style oiled media filters - more likely it's down to inferior airbox design. The other airbox I used a K&N in was in a KTM 1290GT - like the Honda, it was properly designed to hold any filter firmly in place........and K&N was a KTM genuine accessory part.
BTW, I was gobsmacked at the amount of dust and bug debris sitting on the airbox rim under the crushable lid of the V4S.....I now know to blow that clean somehow, before crushing the rubber lid and removing the current paper filter.....if it is possible....there's not a lot of access.....might have to disassemble the nose cowls to get in there......😠
PS.....at 45k miles, your valve guides and seals might be worn too. V2's suck hard. Also, not mentioned is type of oil used.....the stronger FS Esther & double Esther blends can cause glazing in the cylinder bores which will let oil slip past the scavenger rings and burn off, so that may be a factor rather than the airfilter.....I doubt that oil consumption will reduce just by changing a filter, but certainly stopping dust is a priority 👍.