No silly questions there, j.
I can't help you on the RR questions, but you've got it a bit backwards on the battery cables. Generally on a negative-earth/ground system, remove the negative cable first when disconnecting, and when re-connecting, connect the negative cable last. That way if something like a wrench were to touch between the battery positive and the frame, it wouldn't be connected to ground, so no sparks should fly (of course, if you connect a wrench between the battery + & -, you'll get sparks no matter what
Bryan