No DD headlight "yet". Stock set up....should have described it as the small relay just forward of and about the same height as the bottom of the mirror support. It sits just above the turn signal flasher and another larger relay that sits right beside the flasher. I do not have access to my service manual right now, but am thinking (but not sure) that it may be part #31 (relay 541.4.003.1A) on page 52 (Head-Light & Electrical Wiring) of the parts list. Definately not the fan or fuel pump relays (the easy ones to get at)
After thrashing it back together I put the plastic back on (so no pictures for a day or two). I was hoping to make a quick parts run to the dealer but should have written down the numbers (Martys suggestion), hindsight...
Thanks for the input, Jeff